“I’ll Never Be Enough”

by tessamarie

๐‡๐š๐ฏ๐ž ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ž๐ฏ๐ž๐ซ ๐ญ๐ก๐จ๐ฎ๐ ๐ก๐ญ, โ€œ๐ˆโ€™๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐ฃ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ญ ๐ง๐ž๐ฏ๐ž๐ซ ๐›๐ž ๐ž๐ง๐จ๐ฎ๐ ๐ก?โ€

How much of WHO you ARE is tied to WHAT you DO?

In society, by default, we tend to define ourselves by 
๐–๐‡๐€๐“ ๐–๐„ ๐ƒ๐Ž.

Naturally, we equate our doing (work) to the value of who we ARE (being).

๐˜ ๐˜ธ๐˜ข๐˜ด ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜ค๐˜ฆ ๐˜ข ๐˜ด๐˜ฆ๐˜ญ๐˜ง-๐˜ฑ๐˜ณ๐˜ฐ๐˜ค๐˜ญ๐˜ข๐˜ช๐˜ฎ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ธ๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜ฌ-๐˜ข๐˜ฉ๐˜ฐ๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ค ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ฑ๐˜ณ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ง ๐˜ช๐˜ต!

Little did I know, what this self-proclamation was costing me!

Iโ€™d bust my tail to ensure my clients were satisfied, EVERYONE else was happy and the perception others had of me was kept intact.


๐“๐ก๐ข๐ฌ ๐ฅ๐จ๐จ๐ค๐ž๐ ๐ฅ๐ข๐ค๐ž: an inability to say no, eating costs that werenโ€™t my fault, not asking for help, continual disappointment that what I did was never enough, frustration, and always looking for what was wrong so I could โ€œFixโ€ it, ie. frustration, disappointment, overwhelm, anxiety and stress.
 

As I began to understand the deeper meaning and connection, I began shifting and finding a healthy balance.
 

Two Ways of Doing

DO โ€”> BE โ€”> HAVE

When our Doing produces our Being it leads to what we Have. The fault lies in the direct correlation between our Doing and Being. 

This limits what we have because itโ€™s tied to what we do. 

BE โ€”> DO โ€”> HAVE

When my Being drives my Doing– 
it breaks the glass ceiling and releases unlimited possibilities.

My Being is limitless and therefore so is what I Have

๐˜ˆ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ฅ๐˜บ ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜ด๐˜ฉ๐˜ช๐˜ง๐˜ต ๐˜ธ๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ your DOING comes from & ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ณ ๐˜ธ๐˜ข๐˜บ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ง ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜ฌ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ?
 

๐–๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐๐จ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ฌ๐š๐ฒ? Get started today!

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